I am so thankful for my life—grateful for all I have and even for what I don’t. Every moment has been a lesson, shaping me into who I am today. I’ve come to understand that living my best life isn’t about chasing perfection or material gains; it’s about letting go of what no longer serves me.
For so long, I carried anger, aggression, and excuses for my unpleasant actions. I’ve suffered deeply, but I’ve also been blessed abundantly. I’ve spent moments, hours, months, and even years in situations that were unhealthy or unkind to my spirit. Yet, here I stand—no longer living in that unhealthy lifestyle or environment.
There was a time when anger defined me, but I’ve realized that anger only holds me back from enjoying life. Things happen—yes, there are humans who act cruelly in this world, but there are also countless others who are loving, compassionate, and kind. After 46 years of living in this society, I’ve experienced the lowest lows and the highest peaks. I wouldn’t trade any of it. Every experience—good or bad—molded me into the person I am today.
I know now that life is about choices. I know my time here is finite. I’ve lost friends, family members, and loved ones who no longer walk this earthly plane, and while the grief was heavy, I’ve made peace with it. I’ve learned to move forward. Where I used to sit in unpleasant emotions for years, I now choose to let them pass and turn toward something better.
I am blessed to have close connections with my family, my wife, and my sons. They are my anchors. Over the years, I’ve worked to release the energy I had blocked within me for so long—pain, frustration, and confusion that weighed me down. I’ve educated myself to understand that everyone, like myself, is doing the best they can with what they know. Some people hide their struggles; some don’t express themselves; others pretend or ignore. Everyone has their own way of handling their challenges, and I’ve learned to be okay with that. It’s not my job to change how others choose to live. Instead, I focus on my own path and accept others for who they are.
Every day, I am a student of this world. I know I don’t know much, but that humility leaves space for learning and growth. I wish everyone the success they desire in their hearts, and I aim to be of service in this evolution of existence. I’m not in competition with anyone but myself. I challenge the parts of me that need work while giving myself the grace to grow at my own pace. I’ve spent far too long beating myself up, and now I’m learning to be kinder to myself.
I am blessed. I have a roof over my head, the ability to change the temperature when I need comfort, the freedom to go where I want, and food to nourish me whenever I’m hungry. These aren’t small things—they are immense blessings. Sometimes I overindulge, and I’m learning to balance that too.
I want to help others, but I’ve come to accept that I can’t do it all. I aspire to have financial means to create change and support others, but not at the expense of someone else’s well-being. Greed is toxic, and I refuse to live that way. Everything I share, I’ve lived and learned. Life teaches us through experiences, molding us in the ways we need to evolve. It’s a beautiful process, even if it takes time to truly embrace and enjoy it.
If I could offer my younger self advice, it would be this: be patient. Nothing in this world is against you except your own thinking. Ask questions. Keep asking until you find clarity. Not everyone will have the patience to give you answers, but don’t stop searching for them. The truth is, you’ll get there. I’m 46 years in the future, and I want you to know that you’re living your best life. Every lesson, every struggle, and every moment is worth it.
This is the beauty of life: it’s not perfect, but it’s yours. Embrace it, learn from it, and keep moving forward.
NO LABELS JUST HUMAN 